Saint Irene of Chrysovalantou Church

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Saint Irene of Chrysovalantou Church

Guide To Confession

Introduction

This small pamphlet that you are reading my friend, is by no means a treatise for this greatest and holiest of sacraments – that of Repentance and Confession. This subject presupposes extensive study and knowledge of similar enlightening books or text, along with discussions followed by question and answer sessions conducted by individuals experienced in such matters. This is simply to serve as a brief reminder for a better and a more concrete preparation of the Holy Sacraments.

However, you must know that the greatest science and the hardest skill is to try and come to true knowledge of yourself, and at the same time not to lose the greatest treasures that every human soul truly thirsts for – that of salvation. This salvation is offered exclusively by the Godman and Savior, Jesus Christ, who Himself founded and instituted the Sacraments of Penitence: Holy Confession, and the unique means of salvation in His church.

For this reason you must overcome any and as many obstacles that stand in out path to the Holy Confessional. There awaits you with much affection the representative of Christ the Spiritual Father, who being human like you is capable of understanding and sympathizing with his brothers who are fellow sinners.

So do away with any thoughts of embarrassment or fear. What is there to be afraid or embarrassed by when your soul is suffering and being torn by the terrible consequences of many kinds of sin? When you were physically ill and you are suffering not from one by many illnesses, did you ever avoid the doctor, or the hospital due to embarrassment?

And again do not be misled by some people who simply ask to have the “absolution prayer” read to them without going through the actual confession. Whenever this takes place whether from ignorance or negligence this is a terrible sin and a mockery of God.

Therefore, with faith and sincerity walk out towards the Holy Confession. And you must be absolutely certain that the infinite love of the Crucified Savior will receive you and deliver you and take the weights off your shoulders. He says, “Come to me all you who are very weary and burdened and I will give you rest. (Mathew 11:27 – Divinity).

YOU AND GOD

Do you believe in God and the Holy Trinity, the Divinity of Christ and the Holy Spirit? Do you believe in the church sacraments? Do you believe in the existence of Paradise and Hell?
Do you entrust yourself always, and especially in the difficult times of your life, to the Providence of God, or do you become discourage and show lack of faith?
Perhaps at times of affliction, illness and trials in your life, you crumble against God and you lose your faith and courage?
Perhaps you believe in psychics, card-readers, astrologers and horoscopes? In sorceress and witches, in palm reading or general fortune tellers? Perhaps you advice others to believe and take refuge tin these?
Perhaps you believe in superstition and you pay attention to “bad omens” such as number 13, walking under a ladder, crossing the path of a black cat, and other bad beliefs?
Perhaps you believe in luck?
Do you know prayers in the morning and evening and also during mealtime? Perhaps you are embarrassed to Cross yourself in front of other people, i.e. at a restaurant of passing by the outside of a Holy Church?
Do you study the Holy Scriptures, along with various other religious books?
Do you attend church on Sundays and on major feast days?
Do you attend the Holy Liturgy from beginning to end, or do you get there late and leave before it finishes?
Do you go to church dressed modestly? Are you careful not to laugh or start conversation with others, even during the sacraments of Marriage or Baptism?
Perhaps you hinder your husband, wife or children from attending the church? Do you tell your acquaintances not to attend church?
Do you receive Holy Communion often, or once a year and that without going to the Holy Confession?
Do you swear with no reason or falsely, and did you not keep an oath or a pledge you took?
Perhaps you blaspheme the bane of Christ, the Panagia (Virgin Mary) and our Saints?
Do you fast if you don’t have serious health problems, on Wednesday and Friday and during the Lenten seasons?
Perhaps you throw religious books or pamphlets in dirty places?

YOUR RELATIONS WITH OTHERS

Perhaps you have heard or strong dislike towards someone who treated you badly or insulted you in his anger?
Perhaps you are suspicious, are with no reason you distrust everyone, suspecting that they may be talking about you, that they don’t want you, that they don’t like you or love you?
Perhaps you get jealous and bothered about the progress, the happiness, the beauty, and the goods of other people?
Perhaps you stay untouched and unmoved in the presence of your neighbors’ misfortune or serious need?
In your everyday transactions with your partner, co-workers, or customers, are you honest, straightforward, sincere and upright?
Perhaps you slandered or accused your fellow man?
Perhaps you speak sarcastically and make fun of devout Christian and those who fast and struggle to live a true Christian life? Or those that have physical or spiritual weaknesses or limitations?
While you happened to hear some information or accusasion against a third person, perhaps you told other, and you damaged, without meaning to, the reputation and honor of your fellow human being?
Perhaps you passed judgment on the behavior, the deeds, the mistakes, or the shortcomings of others when they are absent, even when what you are saying happens to be true?
Perhaps you cursed someone who did you wrong, or cursed yourself in difficult situations of your life, or the time and moment that you were born?
Perhaps you sent people to “Hell of the devil” in your anger, or use insulting hand gestures?
Do you respect your parents? Do you care for them, or put up with their elderly weaknesses if they have any?
Do you put up with their physical and spiritual needs?
Do you help them go to church and receive Holy Communion?
Perhaps you may have asserted them and treated them with indifference?
Perhaps you influenced and convinced your parents to give you the lions share in their inheritance and in this way dealt unfairly with your brother?
Did you strike anybody in your anger, or abuse him verbally?
Do you carry on your vocation with integrity?
Do you steal? Or did you suggest it to someone or helped him do it? Or agreed to cover for the thief, or receive any stolen goods knowingly?
Perhaps you are ungrateful and thankless to God, and to people that are good to you?
Perhaps you hung around with the wrong crowd, and are involved in sinful relations? Perhaps you pushed someone to sin either by your example or taking them into it?
Perhaps you have committed forgery? Perhaps you have advantage of the Public? Perhaps you borrowed money to other objects and failed to return them?
Did you ever commit murder on any way?
Do you get mixed up in other people’s lives, work, or family, and cause arguments and fights?
Do you give to the poor, the orphans, the elderly, the large and poor families you know?

YOUR SELF

Have you been attached to material things and worldly goods?
Have you been stingy and lover of money?
Have you been greedy?
Have you been a spendthrift? Your surplus belongs to the poor.
Have you been conceited?
Perhaps you like to show off your clothes, your wealth, your success, or your children grades?
Perhaps you crave admiration and adulation from the people around you?
Do you accept praise with pleasure wanting others to flatter you and say that there is no one like you?
Do you get upset when someone points out your mistakes and do you get hurt when you get reprimanded or corrected by your supervisors?
Perhaps you are stubborn, obstinate, egotistical, self proud, and self-centered? Pay attention to these sins because it is difficult to get rid of them.
Do you play cards – even though you may not use money – with people in your home or with relatives looking to “kill time”?
Have you polluted your mind and body with carnal sins?
Do you watch filthy programs on television or at the movies?
Have you been reading obscene books and magazines?
Have you been considered suicide?
Have you ever being gluttonous?
Have you ever being lazy, insolent and negligent?
Have you ever been using obscene, insulting, or improper words, for the sake of being comical and humiliate another person?
Do you have a spirit of denial?
Do you expel from your mind any bad thoughts that come to pollute your heart?
Do you control your eyes so that they don’t curiously examine provocative pictures of people?
Do you control what goes into your ears?
Do you dress indecently? If you are a woman, have you been wearing men’s clothes or provocative clothes and been causing scandal by your appearance, and most importantly entering holy places in such manner? If you are a man do you have a frantic appearance?
Perhaps you take part in frantic or sinful dancing? Do you sing or listen to immoral songs – especially rock and roll?
Perhaps you drink heavily?
Have you been smoking cigarettes? Smoking destroys a person’s valuable health and happens to be a sinful waste of money.

FOR COUPLES

Are you loyal to your spouse? It is terrible when one of the partners is having extramarital relations
Perhaps one of the partners offended or saddened the other in the presence of other or privately?
Perhaps you don’t overlook each other’s possible weaknesses? Have you been insensitive?
Perhaps you the husband encourage your wife to follow the latest fashion and any crazy fad which contradicts God’s Law? Perhaps your wife influences your husband towards parties, expecting him to give you the means to follow a different fashions and the way of the world?
Are you sensitive to the struggle that one of you has outside of the house, and the other inside the house, so you can support each other in the daily struggle thus providing comfort to each other psychologically, emotionally and physically?
As the husband have you been over demanding?
Perhaps you don’t allow your wife or your husband to go to church or to spiritual gathering or sermons?
Do you raise your children “with the teachings and the way of the Lord?” Have you been only interested in the intellectual education and ignoring the quality of their personality?
Do you take them to Church, to Holy Confession, to frequent Holy Communion, to Sunday school? Do you teach them with words and your exemplary virtues? Did you teach them to pray morning and night and also at mealtime with seriousness and devotion?
Are you aware of what they read? Do you try and get them books or magazines of ethical and religious content?
Are you aware of whom they associate with and whom they have as friends?
Have you been taking them to sinful shows movies, and do you allow them to watch television indiscriminately. Timelessly, and without parental scrutiny?
Do you teach them humility and are you concerned that they dress modestly?
Perhaps you curse them when they aggravate you? Perhaps you send them to hell?
Perhaps you had an abortion or you avoid childbearing?
Have you been unjustly to your children with the distribution of your property?
You the husband, are you under the impression that child bearing and development is the responsibility of your wife?

MY BROTHER

Do you see how many things you have to consider? And how much you will still discover when you stay all by yourself and wish to … search deep inside yourself!...

Do you neglect that that is the greatest gift that you can and should offer to yourself and to others?

I pray and hope that the All Good God may enlighten you and strengthen you on this uphill but beautiful path which passes through the Holy confessional and leads to Heaven.